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And what it means to begin healing She was eight years old when she first looked in the mirror and imagined herself as a bride. Not because she was a romantic child. Because she had been taught — clearly, repeatedly, with posters on the wall and lessons in class — that her highest purpose was […]

She was taught to see a bride in the mirror before she knew what she wanted. She was taught her body was a problem. Her doubts were sin. Her instincts couldn't be trusted. That has a name. It's called Religious Trauma Syndrome.

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Who am I, if I’m not who they told me to be? One of the most common things I hear from clients who have left a high-control religion or cult isn’t ‘I don’t know what to believe anymore.’ It’s something quieter and more disorienting: ‘I don’t know who I am.’ Not what they believe. Not […]

Figure: The many facets of cultural identity — race/ethnicity, gender, age, SES status/class, religion, sexual orientation, language, and mental/physical ability — all interacting to form a whole person.

Mellissa grew up in Southern California in a large family, heavily involved in high control conservative religion. She went on to attend college at Brigham Young University-Idaho where she studied sociology and family studies. She then spent 10 years as a stay at home parent. Life pivoted for Mellissa when she experienced a divorce and faith transition and began her own work in therapy.

She spent 5 years as an educator while obtaining her masters degree in professional counseling. She has spent the last 4 years specializing her practice to help others going through major unexpected life transitions, finding healing in the present moment and creating futures that align with their core values. Mellissa’s personal experiences, combined with her specialized expertise and focused study, create a uniquely supportive and effective clinical practice for individuals navigating major life transitions.

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